Divorce Rx with Sonia Queralt
Who receives child support? It’s the custodial parent in a sole physical custody situation. In the case of joint custody, the court will consider the child support obligation based on how much money each parent earns and the percentage of time that the child spends with each parent. (the non-custodial parent pays the child support)
What are some factors used to calculate child support? The needs of the child (including but not limited to health insurance, education, daycare and special needs), the income and needs of the custodial parent,and the paying parents ability to pay (courts will look at the payer’s gross income from ALL sources, less any mandatory deductions such as social security, health care)—the expenses of the paying spouse are irrelevant. In case you are wondering, the judge can examine a parent’s ability to earn as well as what the parent is actually earning. Case in point; assume a parent with an obligation to pay child support does one of the following:
- Leaves a current job and enrolls in medical/law school
- Takes a job with lower pay but good potential for higher pay in the future
- Court may base the child support award on the income from the original job (ability to earn) rather than on the new income level (ability to pay)
- The child’s standard of living before divorce or separation (courts want to continue the same standard of living for the children if possible)
- Importance of parents filling out a financial statement to provide a complete picture of the parents financial situation before making a decision on child support
How can I modify my child support? The standard is a substantial change in circumstance for either party warranting a recalculation of a child support order. Typical changes that can result in temporary or permanent modifications to a child support order include:
- Receipt of additional income
- Job change of either parent
- Cost of living increases
- Disability incurred by either parent
- Increased needs of the child
- Child has a medical emergency
How does child support get paid and what are the advantages/disadvantages? There are several ways
- Wage garnishment
- Direct deposit into account, checks, money orders
- Department of Revenue or equivalent (child support enforcement offices)
What if I can’t afford to pay child support? There’s a good chance that the minimum child support may be set.
What if someone doesn’t pay their child support? There are SUBSTANTIAL CONSEQUENCES FOR NOT PAYING YOUR CHILD SUPPORT! You can have your driver’s license revoked, you can have your professional license revoked, AND you can go to prison! Lesson here? PAY YOUR CHILD SUPPORT!
Alimony—courts have broad discretion in determining whether to award alimony, for how long, and for how much. So, what is alimony? Alimony is the payment that is made by one spouse to another during the pendency of and/or after a divorce. The purpose of alimony is to mitigate any unfair effect of divorce on the lower-earning spouse. The earning capacity of the dependent spouse plays a significant role in the amount of alimony set and can affect alimony both negatively and positively.
Are there different types of alimony? Yes! There are a few, and you should know them;
- Rehabilitative alimony—alimony that is paid for a specific period of time
- Purpose—applies when the recipient has the capacity to become self-sufficient but requires support while making the adjustment
- Reimbursement alimony—includes situations where one party made significant contributions to the other party’s overall earning potential
- Permanent alimony—awarded in long term marriages where there is a significant difference in earning capacity between the parties.
- Purpose—dependent spouse exhibits an inability to earn the sufficient income needed to live comparably to the marital lifestyle
4. Limited alimony—awarded for a limited period of time
What statutory factors are used to calculate alimony? Alimony will be determined differently according to each state’s laws. Here are some contributing factors in determining alimony;
- Contributions of each spouse to the marriage both financially and non-financially
- Length of the marriage
- Income of each spouse and future earning potential
- Age and health of each spouse
- The standard of living during the marriage
- Whether one spouse’s career was affected by raising children
- The assets and debts of each party following the divorce
- Domestic violence
- Tax implications of alimony
What if I cannot pay my alimony obligation? A substantial change in your circumstance may warrant a modification (depends on the statute).
Will I have to pay my spouse alimony AND child support? In some cases, yes!
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